
No, dont get excited. This is not an account of an evening out with Joseph.
On the Gods Choicethread I wrote, in answer to Christophers question about how recent books about Papa differ, that I thought they were fairly similar in many ways. They dont answer the questions I would like to ask him if we were having dinner alone and getting to know each other.
You know how sometimes you sit in a restaurant, and you see a couple totally engrossed in conversation, but a little shy and uneasy with each other. They are learning about lives past and future hopes - really getting to know each other - and it is fascinating to watch. It is even more fascinating to engage in, with the right person of course.
So what would I want to ask Joseph if we were having dinner in a great restaurant where the lights were low, the food wonderful and the waiters discreet? What would others want to ask him? What would you want to ask him?
This is not the time to discuss Relativism or the Summa Theologica. Imagine he has had a hard day at the office, and you have had a hard day taking time taking time off from whatever it is that you do to get ready for this evening. Remember the famous quip made by Henry Kissinger when he was criticised for his choice of rather lightweight dining companions. When Ive spent the day with Indira Ghandi I dont want to spend the evening with Golda Meyer. Dont be Golda Meyer!
You can imagine yourself wherever you want. Perhaps in the middle of a Bavarian winter, at an old mountain Inn, with a log fire crackling near you, and moonlight reflecting off the snow outside the window. Or on the terrace of a restaurant beside the Chiemsee, on a moonlit summer night, with fireflies glowing in the dark and flickering candles on the table. Wherever it is, la Luna has to be there. Imagine moonlight on his hair!! So go on, imagine being in a situation where you can really get to know this exquisite person.
I will propose a first question to begin although I would probably wait for the strudel course before I dared ask it. Have you ever been in love? The Cardinal was once asked why he never mentioned any girlfriends in Milestones. He replied, Because I had to keep it to under a hundred pages. Seewald also approached this topic in Salt of the Earth, mentioning that we knew Papa Wojtyla had been very much in love. Joseph Ratzinger responded by saying that of course he had been touched by friendship. Lord Byron once said Friendship is love without his wings. I would like to know if Joseph ever found the wings. I hope so.
This is meant to be a light-hearted thread and after a while we can collate the answers. Questions are not excluded because others have asked them. It would be interesting to see how many people want to ask the same question. And by the way, Georg and Clemens and any others are not invited. This is strictly dinner pour deux. Anyone wanting to dine with them should start a thread for them.
Hes waiting, and hes already reading the menu!










